Life is about evolution…
If you’re not growing… you’re becoming stagnant.
Hey, look not everyone wants to improve their lives.
Improve where they live.
Improve their relationships
Improve their personal economy
Why not? IDK [I don’t know why… ] I don’t live other people’s lives –
What I do know
…when you improve anything it requires change.
Change is… well fucking change.
What does change involve? Or what does it mean?
It means you’re not the same person you were “before and after” your last experience(s), your last fuck-over, your last whatever-fill-in-the-blank.
As you progress and change, move forward… your life will be different
Being different is awesome and scary.
Why?
I can speak from my personal experience… When I decided to share my stories and create my blog in 2015: The Bitchy Business Briefs, I wanted it to be different, yet accepted.
Well, that’s not how it works. [fast forward to 2020] I am rebranding this website to my name SharonLeeZapata .com
Don’t worry, I am also keeping the name The Bitchy Business Briefs [it’s been around too long to let go]
Not everyone likes or gets what I do… That’s alright.
Go use all the colors in your box – even the broken crayons –
I am an abstract artist with a professional art studio. I host a podcast [in my studio]. I present and hold kickass workshops in my studio too.
I write for RockStars Dream [a magazine that races with Maxium]. I write books, blogs, short stories, and share videos on my social medias
Why not use all your amazeballs factory-installed gifts you have too?
There are many, many people who do…
There is an audience for us to connect-the-dots – – AND we fucking click
I write for us…
The us who are odd,
adaptable,
and resourceful with dreams that cannot be calculated by a statistic
Because you usually want to be sure that the ‘change‘ you’re doing is going to be accepted by everyone.
Well, fuck if you are going to think about what others think about your new ‘change’ – – you will never grow.
If you do what everybody else is doing… you are going to get what everyone else is getting.
We live with a sloppy mess of opportunities.
Opportunities that can change our lives if we let them…
Forever… seriously forever
So, here’s the low down on this…
There was a time we called these opportunities distractions.
Distractions from doing the things that really matter.
Distractions from putting in the work, time, energy, and patience it takes to get anything to work.
There will be times when chasing opportunities will not get you to the next level.
Sometimes simply stopping to re-create what isn’t working is the answer.
You have had to find out what works for YOU.
Are you restless? Prolly… [yeah, I said prolly. Get over it typo freaks]
Are you striving for change? Most likely…
Are you wanting to see things differently? fuck yes’ then do something about it.
If there is anything I can leave you with from reading this post… is master a skill set.
Take 2 to 3 years to do your skill daily. Like every fucking day.
Go so deep on that skill set that you could write a book about it
Figure out how your brain is wired…
For fucks sakes it’s your brain – learn how it works
It took me over 20 years to finally learn what turns my brain on… I love [S.B.S.T.] small-batch storytelling
I’ve made shit loads of mistakes on becoming who I am today.
I’ve done failure so good for so long, it’s not a big deal to me.
I have become immune or more like, unaffected to fuckity fuck tiny shit problems.
This comes with getting older and knowing how much time and effort to put into things that truly matter.
From 2018 to 2019 I wrote 3 short books.
I don’t write self-help books. I write good struggle books and how to stop doing things that make us struggle.
LOL, the struggle is where we grow – but if you could get the cliff-notes from someone who experienced a similar shit show that you can relate to?
Aha… this is will help you to also become immune to feeling crushed by your own struggles.
Grab a copy. I am fucking proud of the hard work I put into it. I learned that working through my ‘low’ times is what got me to finish this.
These books were my favorite dead-lines during 2018-2019.
I invite you to come back here and read some small-batch stories to help you as a human who is meant to do more with your life.
Crack on you sweet, savvy bitch to the next level of YOU.
Push on… because that’s where you’ll grow and become unstoppable.
We all go through highs and lows…
Big ass hugs & Love,
xoxo,
Sharon
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What Changed The Way You Think?
Ten Lessons Learned From A Life Full of Changes
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