What is the hardest decision you’ve had to make?
Like, really, really hard ass…no exceptions the decision required serious results?
Hmm… I know ALL OF US have had to make unbelievable hard decisions.
Well, today’s ‘word-smithery’ s about making a hard decision in order to get some changes… some improvement… something different.
I had a friend who used to complain and bitch about her job & her life…Blah! Blah! Blah!
One day I told her either turn the page or close the book!
P.S. I am no longer her friend.
She drained my batteries!
Now, all my friends are sparkling and shining people! (with a few cracks and acceptable flaws… just joking – – because nobody is perfect)
Now, cutting this old friend off is not the hardest decision I have had to make.
My personal fucking hard decisions are on a list that takes 7 legal pages long.
The reason I have had to make so many hard decisions is that every time I wanted to take myself to another level of growth or improvement, it required me to make a hard decision in order to see the change I needed.
Most people do not like change.
I am not most people and neither are you.
I am not saying that you have to change everything all the time, however, if you want something you’ve never had, you have to do something you’ve never done…
Great example, on my one of my marriages (yes, I have been to the buffet of looking for Mr. Awesome more than once… my hometown had a very low inventory of awesome men)
…that is a blog for another day!)
One of my marriages was so bad; I took a whole year to make a hard decision to leave him.
Now, looking back, I realize I wasted too much damn time worrying about what my family would think…
what would my friends say…
Too bad I did not have the facinating swag I have now!
Who cares what others fucking think about me?
It’s none of my business.
Who cares what others think about you?
It’s none of your business.
This is YOUR LIFE.
You make those hard decisions because if you don’t they will be made for you and you will most likely not like the results!
Do you need to leave a bad relationship?
Leave a bad job?
Change your zip code?
Lose some weight?
Think bigger?
Take action?
Find a new group of people to hang out with?
… If you want to have your very own kick-ass life, make those hard decisions and move up…move on to better.
Or keep the same old shit that brings you down…
You see, life should either be improving, deteriorating or staying the same –
The worst thing anyone can do to themselves is staying stagnant, inactive, and lifeless.
All decisions (hard or easy) all have consequences – You Choose.
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If you’re new to this blog, I highly recommend starting with these posts:
What Changed The Way You Think?
Ten Lessons Learned From A Life Full of Changes
